Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Monday, December 3, 2018
Tumblr's stupid new policies
With tumblr going "family friendly" and eliminating all adult content blogs, I will be making this blog active again until I find a better place to be. It will feature explicit sexuality. So if that's not your thing, this place isn't for you.
Monday, October 3, 2016
My Naughty & Taboo Tumblr
I have a naughty and taboo Tumblr. There is a lot of gloryhole, golden shower, and incest posts. I also have some other fun things mixed in. Go check it out! :-D
https://www.tumblr.com/blog/jtlovecraft
Sunday, September 4, 2016
Saturday, March 22, 2014
Monday, March 17, 2014
Getting Personal: Relationships
It's been awhile since I posted a glimpse into my personal life. So here we go into my thoughts on relationships.
I'm divorced. The marriage failed badly. But it wasn't one of those bitter divorces you hear horror stories about. She and I knew it was for the best and handled things maturely and peacefully. Don't ask me what caused it to fail because I still don't honestly know. It could have been a number of things. The bottom line remains: she and I couldn't keep it together. It's not like we got married and planned to get divorced a few years later. We had grander plans, believe me. But it's not to be. It's over. However, it doesn't stop a small part of me hurting for something that will never happen: a second chance.
So what have I been doing since then? Not dating, that's for sure. Since the separation and divorce, dating hasn't been a priority. I did have a few flings though. Three, to be exact. And one near fling, but the woman involved got cold feet at the idea of a no-strings attached relationship. Now that I think about it, one of the three flings was probably a step or two above a "fling". Anyway, I've been telling myself since we split up I don't want anything serious. Well that's still the case. Sort of.
I do want something serious. I just don't want it right now. Down the road, I'm sure a serious and committed relationship will be wonderful. But I want to take my time getting there. I want to have fun and hang out with someone and get to know her and develop something strong to build on. Then, and only then, will I want to take the turn down Serious Street or Commitment Boulevard. If I start hanging out with someone and we both realize serious wouldn't work, well it's better to find that out sooner than later. And at that point, friendship is still a possible direction. And friendship is always a good thing to find because it is so rare. Of course, hanging out and having fun can lead to no-strings attached situations as well. I'm not saying those are bad, but at some point you must say goodbye to that lifestyle. And I am going to be picky with my next serious relationship. Not that I wasn't with my ex-wife, because I was. Just ask my Mom. There's a rumor she once asked my younger brother if I was gay because I brought women around so infrequently. Meh. Whatever.
So basically, I would to have someone around in the morning for coffee and someone there at night for cuddles. But I don't want that person to have permanent access to me right away. I'd like to start off with visitation rights, so to speak. Lol. Not to sound institutional or anything. :-P But that's the way it must be. It's the only way for me to be fair to myself and any future significant other. Hopefully there are women out there with taking these steps. Hopefully there are women out there capable of dealing with whatever level of relationship we do (or don't) reach. (I already dealt with one crazy bitch after a fling. I don't want to do it again.) Now I'm sure there are women out there who can handle it. It's just a matter of finding them.
Thank you all again for reading. I appreciate the support for this blog. Even with the inconsistency of my posts. And remember, if you cannot be a poet, be the poem.
www.facebook.com/jtlovecraft <----LIKE the page!
I'm divorced. The marriage failed badly. But it wasn't one of those bitter divorces you hear horror stories about. She and I knew it was for the best and handled things maturely and peacefully. Don't ask me what caused it to fail because I still don't honestly know. It could have been a number of things. The bottom line remains: she and I couldn't keep it together. It's not like we got married and planned to get divorced a few years later. We had grander plans, believe me. But it's not to be. It's over. However, it doesn't stop a small part of me hurting for something that will never happen: a second chance.
So what have I been doing since then? Not dating, that's for sure. Since the separation and divorce, dating hasn't been a priority. I did have a few flings though. Three, to be exact. And one near fling, but the woman involved got cold feet at the idea of a no-strings attached relationship. Now that I think about it, one of the three flings was probably a step or two above a "fling". Anyway, I've been telling myself since we split up I don't want anything serious. Well that's still the case. Sort of.
I do want something serious. I just don't want it right now. Down the road, I'm sure a serious and committed relationship will be wonderful. But I want to take my time getting there. I want to have fun and hang out with someone and get to know her and develop something strong to build on. Then, and only then, will I want to take the turn down Serious Street or Commitment Boulevard. If I start hanging out with someone and we both realize serious wouldn't work, well it's better to find that out sooner than later. And at that point, friendship is still a possible direction. And friendship is always a good thing to find because it is so rare. Of course, hanging out and having fun can lead to no-strings attached situations as well. I'm not saying those are bad, but at some point you must say goodbye to that lifestyle. And I am going to be picky with my next serious relationship. Not that I wasn't with my ex-wife, because I was. Just ask my Mom. There's a rumor she once asked my younger brother if I was gay because I brought women around so infrequently. Meh. Whatever.
So basically, I would to have someone around in the morning for coffee and someone there at night for cuddles. But I don't want that person to have permanent access to me right away. I'd like to start off with visitation rights, so to speak. Lol. Not to sound institutional or anything. :-P But that's the way it must be. It's the only way for me to be fair to myself and any future significant other. Hopefully there are women out there with taking these steps. Hopefully there are women out there capable of dealing with whatever level of relationship we do (or don't) reach. (I already dealt with one crazy bitch after a fling. I don't want to do it again.) Now I'm sure there are women out there who can handle it. It's just a matter of finding them.
Thank you all again for reading. I appreciate the support for this blog. Even with the inconsistency of my posts. And remember, if you cannot be a poet, be the poem.
www.facebook.com/jtlovecraft <----LIKE the page!
Wednesday, January 1, 2014
Wednesday, December 25, 2013
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
Thursday, August 22, 2013
All Things Considered...
With the changes in my life over the past year and the changes to be coming in the next few months or so, I am not looking for a serious, committed relationship right now. What I want is a friend with benefits. That's not complicated. It's great for those involved. I'm not making this post into a personal ad or anything, it's just something I needed to get out there because not many people really know that is for what I am looking. Now it's here and people that know me can find it if they look hard enough.
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
Fucking crazy video
Blood and disturbing images? Check. Metal music? Check. Two gorgeous girls with electrical tape on their breasts screaming some vocals? Check. I give you the Butcher Babies.
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Random Sunday Thoughts
It's another one of those time where I don't really have a solid idea of what to write about. I want to take a break from the wrestling themed posts at least for this weekend. So this will be another rambling post. Hope you all are amused.
Adrian Peterson is a moron. Do I really need to elaborate?
Has there been any free agent signings more anti-climactic than the Parise/Suter signings? Talk about a lot of anticip........................ation for nothing!
So, Obama goes to Pittsburgh to hold a rally for his "base" voters. He does it at one of the most expensive universities in the state. Well, at least he finally admits who his base really is: rich white people.
Uproar festival looks to be a fucking great show this year. Who wants to go with me?
You know it's hot when your dog looks for a spot of shade before peeing.
Vicky Vette is my favorite MILF porn star. I know that's useless trivia about me, but maybe one or two of you might care. Lol.
What candy is more addicting: Swedish Fish or Sour Patch Kids?
Why are they doing another Judge Dredd movie? The first one sucked bad enough. I like Karl Urban, but he should have SPRINTED away from this movie offer. I smell a bomb coming for this one.
On the flipside, the huge budget production of The Great Gatsby from Moulin Rouge director Baz Luhrman, looks to have Oscar written all over it...in pretty much every cateory possible.
Bucket list, serious version: visit Jeruselum
Bucket list, not-so-serious version: have a threesome
Is Mike Patton the most underappreciated front man ever? If not the most, he's in the top three for sure. (Hmmm...maybe a future full length post in there somewhere?)
Useless movie trivia: The original draft of Major League has the story based on the Pittsburgh Pirates.
Bought a Memorex iPod speaker dock recently. Best $40 I've spent in a long time.
What an easy way to get cool stuff in the mail for free? If any of you know, please tell me. Thanks.
You know the vampire craze is out of control when Steven Seagal make a vampire movie. Just sayin.
And finally...HOW ABOUT THOSE PITTSBURGH PIRATES?! BELIEVE IT, BABY!
follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JTLovecraft
Adrian Peterson is a moron. Do I really need to elaborate?
Has there been any free agent signings more anti-climactic than the Parise/Suter signings? Talk about a lot of anticip........................ation for nothing!
So, Obama goes to Pittsburgh to hold a rally for his "base" voters. He does it at one of the most expensive universities in the state. Well, at least he finally admits who his base really is: rich white people.
Uproar festival looks to be a fucking great show this year. Who wants to go with me?
You know it's hot when your dog looks for a spot of shade before peeing.
Vicky Vette is my favorite MILF porn star. I know that's useless trivia about me, but maybe one or two of you might care. Lol.
What candy is more addicting: Swedish Fish or Sour Patch Kids?
Why are they doing another Judge Dredd movie? The first one sucked bad enough. I like Karl Urban, but he should have SPRINTED away from this movie offer. I smell a bomb coming for this one.
On the flipside, the huge budget production of The Great Gatsby from Moulin Rouge director Baz Luhrman, looks to have Oscar written all over it...in pretty much every cateory possible.
Bucket list, serious version: visit Jeruselum
Bucket list, not-so-serious version: have a threesome
Is Mike Patton the most underappreciated front man ever? If not the most, he's in the top three for sure. (Hmmm...maybe a future full length post in there somewhere?)
Useless movie trivia: The original draft of Major League has the story based on the Pittsburgh Pirates.
Bought a Memorex iPod speaker dock recently. Best $40 I've spent in a long time.
What an easy way to get cool stuff in the mail for free? If any of you know, please tell me. Thanks.
You know the vampire craze is out of control when Steven Seagal make a vampire movie. Just sayin.
And finally...HOW ABOUT THOSE PITTSBURGH PIRATES?! BELIEVE IT, BABY!
follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JTLovecraft
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